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Why do i feel like a loser? How not to be a loser?

 Cara was a hard worker and succeeded in the work she did. She was the sole breadwinner of the house after her dad had an accident and was unable to walk properly. However, her sister, Mara hated how Cara earned money, did hard work and took care of the family. 

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Mara was looking for a rich guy to be with so that she can spend money on her luxurious life. She hated asking for money from Cara and always called her the loser of the family. Mara only saw Cara as a walking ATM who gave her cash for her needs. Mara hated working and never aimed at getting any job. All she wanted with her life was to marry a rich guy, ditch her family that she is ashamed of and live a glamorous life just like the celebrities. 

Mara kept calling Cara a loser everytime that Cara started believing that she is a loser who is only capable of earning money for her family and nothing else. She had low self-esteem and was worried to date someone. She felt like a loser and gradually it started affecting her work. 

Shaun was attracted to Cara and wanted to pull her out from her issue. With a lot of intervention from his side, Cara was able to gain a boost for her self-esteem. As for Mara, she got cheated by a rich man who was already married and treated Mara as his ‘hobby”. Mara broke down and came crying to her family but her parents decided to cut all ties with her as she used to treat Cara like garbage. Even Cara decided to ignore Mara, block her from contacting and move ahead with life. 

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People try to put down other people by calling them losers. It can either originate from jealousy. They would feel that the other person does much better and calling them a loser would hopefully put their confidence down. Some others judge people and decide that they are not capable of doing anything and then call them losers. 

Whatever the situation is, if someone calls you a loser, you have to either react and speak sense to them which they would ignore or fail to understand. You could also ask for help from your loved ones if someone harasses you by calling you a loser. It is a form of mental harassment that the law supports. Stay happy and strong!

Have a great day :)
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